He is still really mad at you.
He never in his wildest dreams thot he would grow up to be a single dad with custody of the kids. He is treating you like you are dead and the fact that you can just come alive and disrupt the family really oisses him off. As long as he is communicating the children's needs to you he can be as childish as he wants. and if he does not want a dead person in his house,he does not have to have one.My ex husband has custody of my kids, and he has recently purchased a new house,?
Yes. Why do you need to go into HIS home?
Life isn't fair.
He might be doing this for many reasons. Do you have a history of heated verbal or physical confrontations? If so, he's trying to keep this out of his home. Is he remarried? If so, maybe his new wife does not want you in her home.
If it's none of these, and he's just being a jerk - then you just have to live with it. Put a smile on your face while you wait in the car. Act like it doesn't phase you in the least. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing that your bothered by this.
Good luck!
Not very healthy for the kids mental health. It is teaching them to be mean to someone they love.
It is not your house, you don't live there and don't have any right to just walk in, but, you should be INVITED IN for coffee or into the living room when you pick them up. Even the TV repairman gets that courtesy.
Of course. Its his house. He can invite anyone he wants to come in, just as he can NOT invite anyone he wants.
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Yes it is not your house - he is not your husband.
Why would you want to? He's out of your life, the only tie you have is your children, his personal life is his business, not yours.I have an ex the further he stays away from me, the better. He has a new wife, new home, glad for them, now she has him for a headache. Don't be nosey. Don't mean to be rude.Sorry if sounded so.
His way of saying ..you blew it ...so how you like me now!
I think it is. That is his house not yours so he doesn't have to invite you in. Now if you feel your kids are not living in a healthy or good environment, then I would suggest talking to your lawyer to see what can be done about it.
Yes it is. You have no business in his house, the kids can meet you at the door. Why do feel the need to go in his house? Are you jealous, or just nosey? And, what makes you think anything has to be fair? You no longer have rights, to anything of his, except those stated by court order.
Sure is.
Yes, that is his house and as long as he is sending your children out to you, you have no right to be in his home.
You have no right to go into his home now. It is fair. Just the same he shouldn't come into your house.
However, the best thing you both can do for your children is to find a way that you two can have a civil relationship. Going into each others homes is pidly and shouldn't become a problem and cause more issues for your kids.
Good luck!
May not be fair but he can do it.
It's fair game. In fact, the only persons he can't bar are law enforcement and Child Protection Services.
Yes, that's not fair to the kids to see that.
it's HIS house, so technically yes, unless you feel that something unsafe for your kids might be going on inside his house, then maybe you should have a mutual friend go over and make sure everything's alright.
Yes.
Yes its fair. its his house and you have no legal right to be inside it unless he consents to let you in.
Yeah it sure is...My bf has custody of his kids and we dont allow the kids mother in our house she has to stay in the doorway and thats as close as she comes in my house!! Theres no reason for you to go in.
Why do you even want to go in his house. You are lucky he is bringing up his children, a lot of dads or mums come to that dont bother.
